How do you handle a person who is in it as bad as you are, who is in the same pit as you? Who becomes a self spinning cyclone activated by you and you are activated by the other person. Once its common awareness and a common wish for the two to be ok then things can be better, once its only one person who is aware and the other cannot even see beyond their own problem then for them two to feel good together is something impossible to happen, a cyclone becomes catastrophic for the one person. Now all these are important to be communicated clearly or else pride and prejudice will interfere.

Once both are in the cyclone effect then things are a bit better because the impact creates its own energy and before you know it the survival of the cyclone begins in its own center. The true risk lies in the angry recoverer who might never ever learn a new way to be and will always embellish the cyclone effect in his/her life. Not to mention the harsh effects that may come upon the person after the beginning of recovery like a problem untreated rooted to the soul in a way difficult to ever remove. The emotional risk, that is a very heavy burden to carry, is in the case where the one person makes efforts while the other one is in a cyclone. The fact of a high percentage of failure for the cyclone to recover to a common state of care and understanding and selflessness is were the risk lies. Most common stories end up the latter.


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